Great Relationships take work…

…but what shall we work on?

Great relationships take work

…but what shall we work on?

All relationships face a similar set of hurdles.

Success comes from being equipped to get over them.

Four habits
is all it takes...

That’s the lesson from more than 20 years of working with couples. Every successful relationship exhibits them. Every failing relationship we’ve ever seen has lacked one or more of them.

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Our excellent online material is ideal for couples & individuals to engage with at home.

For couples who want to grow together in a strong and healthy relationship we recommend four simple steps to developing 4 simple habits.

Step 1

Recognise Why you are
where you are…

ALL relationships face a similar set of hurdles.

Success comes from being able to get over the hurdles smoothly.

The 4 Habits equip you to get over the hurdles.

Step 1

Recognise Why you are
where you are…

ALL relationships face a similar set of hurdles.

Success comes from being able to get over the hurdles smoothly.

The 4 Habits equip you to get over the hurdles.

Step 2

Understand WHAT you can do to improve things

We all have “Emotional Bank Accounts” – that track every interaction we have with people around us.

Good interactions register as DEPOSITS.  Bad ones feel like WITHDRAWALS.

The “net balance” reflects the how you feel in each relationship.

Success in relationships comes from knowing how to reduce unintentional WITHDRAWALS and make DEPOSITS.

Step 2

Understand WHAT you can do to improve things

We all have “Emotional Bank Accounts” – that track every interaction we have with people around us.

Good interactions register as DEPOSITS.  Bad ones feel like WITHDRAWALS.

The “net balance” reflects the how you feel in each relationship.

Success in relationships comes from knowing how to reduce unintentional WITHDRAWALS and make DEPOSITS.

Step 3

Learn HOW the 4 Habits can help improve your Emotional Bank Accounts.

Reduce Withdrawals

  • #1 – BE CURIOUS, not critical
  • #2 – BE CAREFUL, not crushing

Make Deposits

  • #3 – ASK, don’t assume
  • #4 – CONNECT, b4 you correct

Step 3

Learn HOW the 4 habits can help improve your Emotional Bank Accounts.

Reduce Withdrawals

  • #1 – BE CURIOUS, not critical
  • #2 – BE CAREFUL, not crushing

Make Deposits

  • #3 – ASK, don’t assume
  • #4 – CONNECT, b4 you correct

Practising these 4 habits regularly
will transform your relationships

Not doing so, could cost you dearly.

Step 4

Master The 4 Habits

Two ways to engage

Step 4

Master The 4 Habits

Two ways to engage

Step 4

Master The 4 Habits

Two ways to engage

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Improving Communication

Talk to just about ever couple that have enjoyed a long-term happy relationship and somewhere at the top of the list of the reasons for their success will be “communication”.

Communication is vital for any healthy happy relationship.