Elementor #8019 - The 4 Habits

Equipping Everyone
To Do Relationships Well.

The number one reason for tension and conflict – even in the most stable relationships – is NOT what you think.

All relationships face challenges. Success comes from having the skills to get through the tough times – but most of us don’t know how to do it.

Most people assume poor communication is the problem – but that just camouflages what’s really going on.

Four habits is all it takes.

Learning to be intentional in relationships, rather than reactive, is key.

From a combined 60 years of working with couples, individuals & groups, we recognize that every successful relationship exhibits 4 fundamental habits. Every failing relationship lacks one or more of them.

Build your relationship skills to create better connections – and thrive at home and at work.

Our tailored, exclusive resources & accelerator programs will equip you to handle all of life’s relational challenges.

From better managing tensions & conflict, to creating healthy boundaries, our simple proven process will empower you to increase warmth, build stronger connections and develop more supportive relationships.

How does it work?

1. Choose your path

Choose your own improvement path and decide which part of your social life you wish to focus on.

2. Start learning

Use our simple, tailored resources to discover how to conquer your unhealthy habits and patterns at your own pace.

3. Refine your life forever

Adopt The 4 Habits framework, improve your daily interactions and see firsthand how all the aspects of your life enhance.

Choose your path

At Home

Do you desire love, commitment and intimacy, but find yourself struggling with poor communication, trust issues, and/or constant tension?

Let the power of The 4 habits transform your relationships. Learn the principles and our simple & practical HOW TOs, and watch your most important relationships soar to new heights.

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At Work

Are you striving for innovation and productivity, but struggling with team dynamics and the impact on people’s wellbeing? Is creating an inclusive environment on your strategic agenda?

Unlock the full potential of your organization by investing in the Relational Intelligence of your leaders and teams. Empower them to grow, collaborate and connect in more meaningful ways, and create a culture in which everyone thrives.

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Discover The 4 Habits

Be curious, not critical.

Habit #1

Building awareness and learning to respect differences, helps you reduce the frustrations that come from judgement, criticism and disappointment.

Be careful, not crushing.

Habit #2

Building strong skills in managing conflict, equips you to respond rather than just react, and strengthen (rather than damage) your relationships.

Ask, don't assume.

Habit #3

Learning how to have courageous conversations and unpack assumptions, helps you address deep-seated issues and builds trust and respect into your relationships.

Connect, before you correct.

Habit #4

Communicating value and appreciation in meaningful ways, helps you overcome feelings of being taken for granted, and builds warmth and connection in your relationships.

What People Are Saying About Our Programs...

"The scary thing for me was finding out how wrong I've got this for almost 10 years! Every bit of this is purposeful - no fluff!"

"This program was really insightful about how to manage conflict. I feel empowered to work through conflict for an optimal outcome in all my interpersonal relations"

"I highly recommend this material - it is important for family and friends relationships just as much as it is for couples"

"Very valuable information to help couples in every stage of their relationship. Very practical and beneficial."

"I chose this program because it's the 'Golden Thread' that binds relationships. If you get communication right all the other things fall into place. I need to now put some of what I've learned into practice."

This is a fantastic program delivered in a very professional and enjoyable manner. The helpful format of bite sized videos, once attuned to, allows for easy recaps of specific topics. The follow up quizzes and links are a great and helpful addition.

This program not only equips you with key principles for improving communication but also invites you to engage with its interactive videos and Q&A. This program is a must for everyone, whether you feel you're a good communicator or not!

Find out more about our life-changing book!

“A template to help anyone have better relationships – whether in the boardroom or the bedroom” - Rob Parsons, Founder and Chairman, Care for the Family

The 4 Habits of All Successful Relationships

“We all need frameworks for life and when it comes to the complex business of making relationships work, this is as good as it gets.” - Dawid Konotey-Ahulu CBE, Co-Founder of Redington, Mallowstreet and 10,000 Black Interns.

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Help us equip 1M people with the skills to build stronger relationships

We're excited to be developing resources to help communities equip their people to do relationships better, through our UK registered charity, Soulmates Academy Foundation.

Our vision is to transform the lives of individuals and communities by strengthening relationships around the world.

If your heart breaks at the damage that broken relationships cause, we’d love your support.

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"Treat your relationships as if your life depended on it... because in reality, it does."

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About Our Founders

Dr. Andrea & Jonathan Taylor-Cummings are recognised authorities on the subjects of relationships, marriage and improving Social Health in companies and communities, with numerous public speaking engagements, TV and Radio appearances, and press articles to their credit.

As city professionals and entrepreneurs themselves, Jon & Andrea have first-hand experience of the inevitable relationship challenges of high-stress careers and the pressures of living and working together 24/7. Their TEDx talk on ‘The 4 Habits of ALL Successful Relationships’ continues to resonate very strongly around the world with over 3 million views to date. Their book of the same name has been warmly received by the Relationship industry worldwide.

Jon & Andrea have a vision of ‘equipping everyone to thrive in relationships at home and at work by changing behaviours from habits that are unintentionally damaging relationships to habits that strengthen them, on purpose. They have been married for 30 years and have two grown children who continue to keep them accountable for the relationship advice they teach!

Equipping Everyone
To Do Relationships Well.

How does it work?

1. Choose your path

2. Start learning

3. Refine your life forever